Welcome to Truth vs. Love

An online book that offers a new answer to the complex theological question of homosexuality.

Dear reader,

If you are anything like me, you are here because you feel a strong sense of moral urgency about the question of homosexuality.

You want to believe that God is love, but of late, you have found it increasingly difficult to reconcile your Christian faith and your human conscience. You have sought answers from theologians, Christian writers, pastors, friends and even family. But you still feel deeply unsure. Though every answer is sincere, they all seem to ultimately fall on one side or the other of an impossible compromise: either we give up our commitment to truth in order to love our LGBTQ friends, or we give up our commitment to love in order to submit to God’s truth.

I wrote this book for you.

A few years ago, I felt the same way. But after years of research and wrestling, I have come to understand that there is, in this case, no need to choose between truth and love. We can – and we must – hold firmly to both. To my surprise, I could find no existing work with answers resembling what I had learned. So I wrote this book to share with you what God has shared with me.

I recommend you start with the introduction, then read chapter-by-chapter or choose your own adventure. When you’re done, write me a letter, or visit my blog for more content. Thank you for reading; I hope these answers mean as much to you as they do to me.

Obasi Shaw, the author


Thoughts or comments? I’d love to hear from you. Please write in your thoughts, arguments, and questions here, and I’ll periodically respond to your letters on my blog.


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